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Welcome to the 4Peaks Parents Blog—your go-to resource for navigating the emotional rollercoaster of parenting. Whether you’re dealing with anger outbursts, dating drama, or failure to launch, I’m here to help. These articles are designed to equip you with tools, perspective, and confidence to better support your child—and take care of yourself in the process.

🛠 Strong Men Aren’t Born. They’re Forged. discipline lazy male motivation strong young men Jan 11, 2026

 

There’s a quiet frustration I see in many young men today.

  • They’re not lazy.

  • They’re not broken.

  • They’re not incapable.

  • They’re just… stuck.

They’re waiting for something o...

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Before You Make Resolutions, Have You Asked Your Kids This? Dec 28, 2025

 

As we wrap up the year, many of us start thinking about resolutions. We make plans to get healthier, more organized, more present. And while those goals are meaningful, I’ve learned something in my...

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Raising Grateful Kids in an Entitled Season december gifts holidays Dec 14, 2025

December can be a beautiful month.

It can also be a loud one.

More ads. More wish lists. More pressure. More stuff.

And for many parents, especially those raising teens and young adults, there’s ...

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After the Turkey Settles: A Parenting Reset Before the Holiday Rush Nov 30, 2025

After the Turkey Settles: A Parenting Reset Before the Holiday Rush

The dishes are finally done. The leftovers are nearly gone. And if your house is anything like mine, the fridge still holds one las...

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When the Console Becomes the Comfort: Parenting Through Gaming Addiction addict console gamer gaming online Nov 16, 2025

 

Your teen is spending 6, 8, sometimes 10 hours a day on the Xbox or PS5.

They sleep in, they avoid responsibilities and every time you bring it up, they shut down, or fire back.

You’re not alone....

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What to Do If You Find Out Your Teen Is Drinking abuse teen drinking Nov 02, 2025

 You just found out your teenager is drinking.

Maybe they came home smelling like alcohol.
Maybe another parent called you.
Maybe you found the bottle, or the text, or the video.

And your stomach drop...

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Preparing Your Teen for Real-World Responsibilities financial literacy life skills Oct 05, 2025

Financial Literacy, Life Skills, and Independence

If your teen is getting closer to adulthood and you’re feeling a little panicked about what they still don’t know… you’re not alone.

I’ve worked wit...

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Cranky 11-Year-Old Boys: What’s Really Going On, And How to Help Sep 21, 2025

 There’s a reason your normally sweet, funny, playful son now slams his door, yells at you for saying “Good morning,” and gets mad when his spaghetti touches his garlic bread.

It’s not that he’s brok...

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Parenting Through the “Invisible” Seasons Sep 07, 2025

There’s a quiet season in parenting that doesn’t get talked about enough.

It’s not the crisis moment.
It’s not the rebellious teen years.
It’s not even the toddler tantrum phase.

It’s the drift.

Your...

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Teaching Kids to Be Bored (And Why It Matters More Than You Think) Aug 24, 2025

In a world designed to capture your child’s attention 24/7, boredom feels like the enemy. The moment a child mutters “I’m bored,” we scramble to fill the silence, with screens, activities, or suggesti...

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What If Your Child Isn’t the Problem? Aug 10, 2025

As parents, we’re trained to focus on the behavior right in front of us.

  • Your child is failing classes.
  • They’re lying.
  • Withdrawing.
  • Vaping.
  • Sleeping all day.
  • Lashing out.
  • Not launching.

An...

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The Myth of the Perfect Parent (And What Your Kids Actually Need) Jul 27, 2025

Let me just say this upfront:
Perfect parenting is a myth.
And the more we chase it, the more disconnected and exhausted we become.

I work with a lot of high-achieving parents. Entrepreneurs, executive...

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